’t get my point in the beginning, but just speaking out made me feel so much better. Also I found it a common situation to be alone or feel lonely in this society, and what you need to do is to accept the fact and try to reconcile with yourself. How do you deal with that, Nicky? Cause I know that you’ve been living by yourself for years. Is there any moment that you feel lonely and feel like to find someone to join your life?
Nicky: I think what you said, reconcile with yourself, this is very important. I live alone, doesn’t mean that I am alone in this society. I have friends and I hang out with them very often, it’s just in my home, I’m by myself. But in the meantime, I enjoy spending time with myself, I do whatever I want when I’m alone. You see, I’m thirty-five now and I have relationships before, but this just doesn’t work well for me. During all these years, I found myself quite comfortable being alone.
Max: How about you, Andre? You are the opposite. You’ve been with Marina for so many years. How do you feel about having a relationship?
Andre: Are we going into a topic of relationships and affections now?
Max: Well, I feel people needs to know. If we can talk about this off camera, we should be able to talk in front of our audience as well.
Nicky: Absolutely.
Andre: Well, I don’t usually feel lonely. As you said, I’ve been with Marina for so many years, and we know each other so much. But there are always pros and cons to be in a relationship. You probably feel lonely being single, but you get more freedom. When you have a relationship with someone, everything becomes together, between you and her. You have to complement each other to become a couple, you have to take care of her, you have to be responsible for her, you have to think of her when you make every single decisions, cause your life is not just your own life now. Many of the times, they are challenge, but in the meantime, also beautiful.
Nicky